I'll add my thoughts based on Art of War (With Girls) by Sun Tzu a great man and The-Guy-Who-Fucked-A-Lot
1.Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak.
--- You're emotional? Don't get soft, use to communicate with GURL on her emotions, ask about em and let her know that you listen.
--- You're TOO emotional? Hold it inside, let someone know you have some feelings but never let them override your logic and strenghts
2. You have to believe in yourself.
--- No girl in the world and no man in the world is more HUMAN than you. We're all same humans, flesh and bones. Milions of years of evolution, act like it!
3. If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.
--- Know your strengths and weaknesses. Pick your fights in places you know and don't ever let fate decide any detail. Control everything, think and react. LET IT FLOW BUT BE THE FORCE THAT MAKES THIS FLOW POSSIBRU.
A small tip, beside all those Sun Tzu talks, knowing a place you want to pick someone is 30% of date. Know what to order and what to order for someone. They often will wonder, and you have to be decisive. Decisiveness is a key!
Just fucking realized, last one is Sun Tzu too.
PICK YOUR BATTLEFIELD BEFORE THE ENEMY, FIRST ONE ON THE BATTLEFIELD WILL FEEL RESTED AND FRESH UPON THE BATTLE AND ONE ARRIVING WILL BE TIRED FROM TRAVEL (PARAPHRASE BUT GUY FUCKING FUCKED OK?)